- Now let me put a tiny little disclaimer in before I finish this post. I do know bad things happen to good people - and that not everything that happens to us and around us in our fault, or our doing or within our control.
God said things of this world would come against us. 1 Peter 5:8 (NIV) Be self controlled and alert your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.
So now that I have the disclaimer out of the way I want to take a look at what is in our control.
Someone once said - "You will pay for it now or you will pay for it later- but you will pay for it". he was talking about some equipment and the much needed repairs and or replacement that would be eminent if not taken care of, but what other things in our lives can we apply that to? Our health, weight, finances, children, relationships, the list goes on. See we indulge ourselves or our children until we're/they're out of control and then we look around for someone or something to blame. We say well our health, it's part of getting old. Relationships, well it's their fault, or Finances it's the economy, and our children, they were born that way, they have an illness, it's their friends, T.V., the school.
Now again disclaimer - some of these reasons may be facts but they don't have to be the truth. John 8:32 says You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. Free - Free of Poverty, free of rebellious children, free of being over weight, free of aching bones and joints.
But How? Go back to t 1 Peter 5:8 Be self controlled - Wait - Hmm see we indulge (too much) and then it catches up with us. All those things in our mind we say - "I'll take care of that later" - later does come.
Indulging as a treat is fine, but when it becomes a lifestyle you will pay at some point. If you give a child candy everyday and don't make them eat veggies or discipline them, you will pay, by their bad attitude, smart mouth, physical health and rebellion. Correct them now or fight with them later.
If you "shop til you drop" every weekend - you will pay at some point when those credit card bills come in and you don't have enough check to cover. God whispers - Go with out now or Go with out later.
If you eat everything you want and tell yourself I'll eat better tomorrow - tomorrow will come and probably with a few extra pounds.
See we fool ourselves. Just because we don't see an instantaneous consequence for our actions, we tell ourselves we are okay to continue on the same path. We will and do reap what we have sown in our lives. So if we want the course of our surroundings to change then we need to change what we are sowing. No it's not fun, and yes it will take time to turn this ship around. The wake of the current we have created is swift and strong. But our God is stronger.
Someone else told me "If you really want it you will make it happen, if not you will make excuses!
If I really want any of these things in life, I will need to hold myself accountable to the types of sowing that will produce the reaping I want. Pay now or Pay later - I will pay!
Wisdom chooses to do now - what it will be satisfied with later!
Father God, Please help me - I know you have given me a spirit of self control. Help me to use it in all areas of my life. Show me the paths to take that will reap a better tomorrow. Help me to listen and follow your whispers of wisdom.
In Jesus' precious name - Amen